I don't think W quite knows what could be coming down the road in the next few weeks. I am debating dropping the house price dramatically, moving out and moving on. As much as I love W, Saturday will be 2 months. I know the 48 hour rule, and will follow it to a tee.. just sayin..
I know this is hard, but 2 months is not really that long. She has to believe your changes are permanent. You spend some time together so you are making progress...walking, watching movies, etc. I know MichelleLT and myself went about 2 months with absolutely no contact.
How would you cover the loss on the house if you dramatically drop the price? Just don't make any knee jerk decisions. Patience is hard....but this is a long, slow road.
Hang in there. I know she has filed, but how long is the D process in Canada?
The process is 1 year.. we have to be "seperate and/or living apart for 1 year" , here since we are in seperate rooms, we are considered seperated.
Today realtor called and said there is an urgent showing of our home.. guess we shall see how it pans out, i might be living alone soon.
Yes 2 months seems like an eternity.. I feel like an alien almost.. no family here so i haven't really had any physical contact for awhile. (I am a physical kind of person, that's why when W does my hair or similar things, it's huge i get a little bit of contact)
To cover the loss isn't something i want to think of. I'll worry about it when and if the time comes. Maybe today is the day the house gets an offer we can't refuse.
I am now going to Anchorage next week instead of Washington.. cool..
