Baggy - that is interesting, and my ex-h felt similar to you, in that he did not find the male anatomy (ie: his own body) to be sexually appealing at all. I found this created a problem for us, actually. But I'll put more on that on my thread...
But to you I would ask, because this is the type of discussion I enjoy bringing out in people....being that you are hetero, even to a fault...can you explain why a hetero man would enjoy porn which includes men with huge members? I have always thought that straight men would understand that it is at least a tiny bit non-straight for them to enjoy seeing a big' ol stick in porn. They obviously do enjoy it (not saying you do or not, just saying men in general) and the reason I conclude that they enjoy it is this:
*Men make/produce porn, for men (market is 90% men)
*Most porn of man-on-woman features only men with big ones
*Therefore, men making porn for the enjoyment of other men are the ones who are deciding that the enjoyment will include big ones.
Is this a sensible question to ask? Why are there no short skinny sticks in porn, if in fact, the men watching are not wanting to see big ones? And please try not to answer as if it is somehow inherent or normal for the sticks to be big...this is a serious question to straight men: why do you want to see a huge penis? Straight men will squirm and try to not answer this question or to deflect it (and I know this because I have brought this issue up to many straight men). But it isn't logical that it is not a choice for these men watching porn that they are also CHOOSING to see big sticks.
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See how confusing that is? Especially to someone who is bi, and so it makes much more sense to me that a man would want to see a big stick...but only if he can understand his own "little amount of non-hetero" thoughts within himself.
If you don't want to answer, then I'm going to just call you a queer and drop it.
(joke) :0)
As for the beard, cool! I love beards, but that is a totally personal choice, some women hate them.
