"The only hope is that maybe H and I can create a new relationship now, first based on real friendship."

that is a great way to state the whole message form above and so healthy! good fo ryou for standing your ground.

please remember to not believe his BS....i think you are right and this allowed you to say to him our old marriage is dead...that is ver powerful.

i am so sorry you had to hear all of this from him- i think it is very damaging for him to tell you this....but maybe its better than not knowing...

you are STRONG and he is WEAK...im not attacking him but using his self esteem as an excuse is the BS part....

let him go into his hole- you dont have to follow!

you are doing so well....you are NOT LOST.

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