I know you are trying to help. But if you said you have been reading then changing the locks is not an option for me right now. I asked her for the key when I was locked out and when I gave it back she said she didn't want it.
I told her I wanted her to have it.
One of my complaints was how bad it is going to suck and not come home from work and the kids be here. She said she would do that on occassion.
Another thing about the key. Before she left she said don't worry I'll come and give you booty calls. When I asked for the key she said how am I going to give you booty calls.
Ok now I'm wondering when we are going to get to the booty call stage. Was this just her way of lying so that could just keep coming home checking up on things. Waiting for me to fail.
Does she expect me to go out and buy a case of beer? Does she expect me to have parties at our house and have wild woman over?
She always accused me of cheating on her. I never did. I'm not going to now. We are still married. That doesn't give me a free pass.
One time she even said before the bomb. Go out and get lovings somewhere else just don't bring anything home.
Other times she would say. Here I am doing my wifely duty.
Then she would inquire me at times as to how frequent I would like to be intimate with her. I said everyday, but I know that just isn't going to happen.
Dang prove again about bullsh|t. "I never felt like you were there for me." I wanted to make love to my wife everyday. How much more there for them could you be.
Of course she never like calling it making love. She said it was always sex. Well that's her terminology not mine. More justification on her part.
I'm seeing her side. I call it making love. That's affection. She calls it sex. That isn't affection. By her definitions I wasn't there for her.
