I am sorry that he cannot get it right. You may want to try a more drastic 180 or the Beyond the LRT technique where you file and push the D process hard. That either shocks him into reality or gets you free. He thinks that he can still get you back if he wants it. This would kill that thought. I know that it sounds drastic but you have to have a life at some point. Are you really in love with him today? Or just in love with who he was?