Hi Sandy,
Congratulations on your success - that's wonderful news!!!
I would like to thank you for posting because it really helps those of us still trying to save our M. It gives us hope that DB can work.
Originally Posted By: sandycay
This is irony now but all the time I thought he was pineing away for her over in his apartment he was really sad about what he had done to me. In his mind, he couldn't see how we could ever work since he ruined the sanctity of our marriage. He also said that because it was so against his character and the person he thought he was he had to convince him self that what he had with her was....real, all that and a bag chips Because if it wasn't....why did he do that to me?

I find this interesting because my H has said this to me also. He has also said that he really doesn't understand how any of this could have happened. He feels very guilty about the whole thing but at the same time continues to pursue OW eventhough that R ended a couple of months ago.

Once again, thanks for posting and let us know how it's going.


Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz