Okay, dug this thread out of the trash bin just so I could post semi-anonymously tonight.
So, even though I recognize the twisted viewpoint my H has on everything at the moment, I'm bummed enough myself about my weight gain that I admit, I start to question myself. Am I really just such an unattractive fat middle-aged woman that H has a right to feel he got totally gypped in life???? E
I wonder this too. I am overweight, I know it. I lost 50 pounds when my DB diet started, no one could hardly notice! It's crept back on again. I don't FEEL fat and ugly. I am active and do everything I've always done. Many people compliment me and seek my advice and take me for who I am.
A lady I know went on the WW diet and lost over 30 pounds and she looks like a whole different person! It doesn't seem fair in so many ways.
Mostly I do know that if H is so unhappy in his life that he wants to blame me and my overweight thunder thighs as reasoning for his behavior I know that I know better. If it wasn't that it would be something different such as the way I cook, or pet the dog, or turn the key to start my truck.
You Do (E), live your life the best way you know how. Your H seems like a risk taker in many ways and you're a step behind him to pick him up. Does he resent you for that?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
