My path is and will be the best friends aproach, and i am tring hard to sepreate that with my own needs from her. witch i know she is in capable of meeting. you are right about the "i am not doing xyz approach." that is why i have not take done that yet.
I do mean R talks and wish she would open up, but it has to be on here own. I have not iniated any conversations on the subject since i really decided to do the friends thing 3 weeks ago. and this has proven results because she has contacted me twice since that. baby steps right!!
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
