Twerpled on the Head with a Magic Kumquat

[Sugar and Spice]

(((GFI))) I'm sorry that things haven't gotten any better, but you my friend should not beat yourself up for this. You have tried and been more than willing to work on it and you H has chosen not to, thats on him.

If he is willing to let someone as wonderful as you slip through his fingers, then he is nowhere as smart as you give him credit for. As far as OW goes, if she really has wanted him all of this time my only thought is this...don't ask for something that you really don't want because you just might get it. My H will learn the same lesson.

I read the link that lodo posted and saw so much of myself in that. I wish I would have read it a long time ago, but by the time I was clued in to the problems, he was already gone.

You are a wonderful, sweet, caring woman and your H is a fool. You will have no problem finding someone who truly deserves you when and if you are ready. You always make me smile when you post to me and I see the care and concern in your posts to others. You have so much to give, you only need someone worth of you to receive it. Maybe H will be that man someday. For right now you take care of you and work on the things you want to work on. ((((Hugs)))) my sweet.
Corey