[ She just wanted to go out and swallow the big girl pill. However I don't understand why she wants to take me down in the process.
if she truly wants to "swallow the big girl pill" stop feeling like you need to pay for her things. CHild support..yeah...i get. But everything else? her car? car insurance? She wants to be independent, but doesn't want the responsibility......
she's taking you down because you are choosing to let her. In my entire process, i've learned one very important lesson. All of life is a choice. she choose to walk away. you are choosing to enable her choice. you can choose differently
look, i know you love her and feel guilty because you think you pushed her away. I get it. I grapple with that daily.
If you truly love her, this can be a life-long lesson for her... so she can see what true love is....to see how much you truly love her.
it's not easy.
i'll say it again.
stop enabling her.
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
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