the W did talk to me a few days ago abut how she didnt know if she could fix our M because of how mad she was at me. i asked her to explain what she was mad at me for so i could know what to try and work on and it was the same thing as why she left. i told her she had a right to be mad and i only hope we could move forward and we talked alot about what we tougth had to be done to fix our M. she didnt seem to think she could be able to ever forgive me. i tld her not to worry about right now lets just see where things go. she told me that she thinks my changes are fake and wont last. i told her just give it time and lets see where we are maybe would could start doing things together with the kids and see how things gpo so i could show her this is how i9 intend to be. she has talked with me alot moore on the phone and the conversations seem to last longer. i hope this is a good sign. what do you WAW think? it would be great if youll chimed in again. thanks again,mike