Hi IMP, breton, na & peace- I am trying to continue on the road of no expectations but sometimes it gets a little more difficult. My H and I went out again last night...dinner and a movie. My H is making more of an effort to spend time with me although there is really no talk of planning anything beyond the very near future. We keep talking about trips we would like to take but nothing has been mentioned about us going anywhere together.
My H is planning on coming over this weekend to BBQ. He really wants to have a get together for my D since she leaves on Tuesday. He is going to buy the food and cook...he is a great cook...one of the things I really love about him.
There are some things that are still bothering me. My H is going to a bachelor party for the whole weekend next week and my H keeps talking about going on trips with his D but can't plan anything with me. I am biting my tongue and trying to be patient...I do sense that we are working toward a weekend away together...uh oh, there is an expecation! I am thankful that every time before my leaves me now, he will talk about the next time he will see me...he even brought up that we have C next week. I think we are making baby steps forward...I just need to prepare myself for those backward steps.