For the Guy with kids and a WW 6

[hopeful4her]

Guys, in a way, she is confused. She says that they are going to be living with her, but splitting time.

I was trying to explain to her how it works. Half the time with her, half the time with me. Timeline is up to us.

She even said, "They ARE going to live with me. They are going to split time between you and me."

I told her that she just said it. "It's the same thing. You might tell yourself that they are living with you, but they are not. They are living with you and me." It was HEARING it that threw her off. She has fuzzy logic.

I am the one that told her about the consequences. I WISH she would realize the consequences.

About the D papers. After the Saturday that she told me she had found the apartment and all the drama with my kids. We talked on Monday. A nice conversation. She had told me about borrowing the money for an attorney. Then another conversation Tuesday night
went a little different. Getting heated, she was telling me to just wait. She tried to warn me. Papers are on the way. Later in the night, us talking more calmly, she tells me how she had the L draw up the D papers, but called her to hold off on sending them. To wait out at least the next 7 months that she is signing the lease. "But don't push me" she told me.

I was trying to get her to say that she wanted to see if any feelings would change for her. For us.

And it was I that told her that SHE was DECIDING to end the friendship. She had choked it to death already.

She is a very stubborn woman. At some point, I am hoping that she was just saying sh** just to say sh**. Her stubborness.