I remember on some occassions, he got REALLY upset that I wasn't helping him. But once he cooled down, I think he understood. I explained to him how I felt like I was mothering him all of the time and that wasn't good for our marriage. I might not be around forever to help him so it is time for him to do some things on his own. He was already doing his laundry, but if I was doing a load, I would throw in whatever hadn't been washed.

Do I still have any contact with him? Just business type things at this point. My hope is that once everything has settled down, we could be friends again. However, since he is still heavy in the relationship with OW, I don't see that happening any time soon.


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08