(((Treese))))----exactly the same!!! Glad we found this place together.
Upside - H is staying in our small town----so just a couple miles away. I know that he is very conflicted. I even think he's pulling away from OW a bit too. I honestly think he knows he's in the shi**er, just doesn't know how or if he wants out.
I'm thankful for friends----and now thankful for friends that I didn't know I had before................(di))
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12