"Too much has happened, I need to be happy now" "I can't be happy with you, we are better separated, I'm calm now" "Nothing you can say or do will change my mind, I want a divorce, it is my time to be happy"
It's eerie in a way how similar most of these sitch's truly are. Yeah, they have there own individual flare and what not but when you cut right down to it.
I have also wondered how much of a front she's putting on, being happy and acting like nothing is wrong when she is around the house when I know deep down there is pain, stress, and pressure. Maybe Sandi or SC can chime in on this. Do the WAWs put up a front/put on the happy face when around LBH? I find it hard to believe that she truly is happy given everything that is going on but you never know. Maybe that is another reason why she doesn't want me to be around when she is. The emotional component. Over the past 4 weeks, whenever we both are around, she usually would end up teary to some degree. Ah, who knows.
With regards to the bikes, there were plenty down there but there were more this past weekend. Sioux Falls has Hot Harley Nights which was on Saturday and last night was Hot Summer Nights with the 'vettes. The 'vettes will be leaving today to go to the Black Hills for a rally. Pretty awesome to see some of the classics that were out there.
Also, my friends pulled and twisted and finally broke me. If the D goes through, this spring I'll be buying a HD Road King. Going to pick up a brochure today during lunch and just maybe leave it on the kitchen island for the W to look at. Ha! That'll make her wonder. But in all seriousness, we were talking about it and started to plan a ride next May out to Pittsburgh (I have family out there) or DC (Rolling Thunder???). As I have been thinking about who I was/am, there is a rebellious/f the system side to me, even though I am all corporate/yuppy right now. The bike will allow me to express that side of me and will just add to my overall PMA and happiness. Maybe even get a sidecar for the kids and my dog :-)
Chris
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