WAW is full steam ahead

[LosingSunshine]

Well,

I was out GAL last night and went out for dinner at the usual spot and then went d/t for Hot Summer Nights with some friends. I even met up with Jaws from this board. What was funny is his younger brother hangs with the son of the couple I was with. Small world. In anycase, lot's of great 'vettes and bikes, even an OCC bike which was cool. I also had a huge ego booster as we were standing out on the street talking. There was an attractive lady that started flirting with me after a passing smile on our part, so obvious with her body language that my buddy's wife even noticed. Made me feel good even though I had to let it slide.

So, update on the sitch...I got home last night with the kids and when the W got home, we had a pleasant conversation. She thanked me for cleaning the dishes that she had used the night before and the morning. She then asked how my day was and I told her what was going on at the office and how much more comforatble I feel about the future of my position (major contributing stress factor on my part leading up to the sitch) and how much exposure I am and will be getting throughout the larger division (I work for a business unit of a Fortune 50 company and there are 5 business units in our division). She seemed pleased that there is a sense of greater security as there was very little of that as long as 2 to 3 months ago. I asked how her day and she didn't really get into any details but she brought up how she'll be going to a conference in a few weeks. The conference is the week before I take the kids to the beach so she'll be w/o them for close to 2 weeks. Wondering how that'll play into the situation.

I decided since we were having a great time last night, why not stay out a little later than normal (during the work week I have been coming home around 9ish when I've gone out, if not earlier) so we all went to grab a late night snack. My W was in bed, or at least downstairs and out of sight, by the time I got home. She had left the front porch light on for me which was nice.

This morning there was no mention of last night on my part and no questions from her. I asked how the kids were and kept the conversation at that. I also reminded her that the daycare picnic was tonight and that I'll be taking the kids to it. She seemed a little interested, but not sure why.

So, nothing has reallyl changed this week. No mention of her convo with her L on Tuesday. Jaw's wife is using the same L as my wife and his L put her to shame during their first court appearance so that is comforting if the mediation falls through. Still going to be db'ing big time and staying dim for a few more days at least to see how that goes. Going to start being a little more unpredictable too.

Chris