Hi all,
Thanks for your support. I am confused and struggling again today. I feel fractured, splintered, torn, and splattered.

Whenever I assert my thoughts and feelings of our situation he defends & denies them. It got ugly again last night and he said why should I listen to you, why should I be nice?? if you won't meet my LL (physical touch).

He chose to call at 4:30am to go through the talking wheel on that subject and then immediately wanted me to do it to on the same subject. When I said I couldn't, that I thought it was unfair to call up out of the blue like this esepcially when I was sleeping and ask for completeness in thoughts etc when I was half asleep I found incosiderate. Then I was called the b%4ch again for not caring enough to do this with him. ugg.

I don't think I can do this anymore. I want off this crazy ride.


Divorced 03/2010
Mom to two amazing kids

Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.

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