oh YES!!!! I know EXACTLY what you mean!!! I sometimes think "I did DB'ing, it changed MY life, it made ME a lot happier and what did YOU do? Nothing! Just sat there and WAITED for the bad times to pass".
But what's wrong with this picture? Well, to me it smacks of "everything would be great if YOU changed". I was ignoring the small signs that H had changed. I was looking for him to do things MY way (ie the DB way). But he has changed. He got there, and he did it HIS way, which for him is the ONLY way. I can't make him do things my way, the most I can do is make suggestions to him, but I cannot and will not make decisions for him.
Terrific insights, Jen. Thanks!
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
