I enjoy the Sex and the City shows. I think by and large it shows a healthy approach to dating. The Alexandr Petrovsky episodes are the last season. But you really should watch them all in order. At least I did.
Once you are on fb, you ask people to friend you. I know you have asked Sunshine. After you are friends, then she sends you an invite to group. You join that and say hi on the board and we all start friending you. That's all there is to it. Others can come too.