You wrote, "At the same time I was being very direct to my W in regards to what I want out of our M. Asking for what we want and need isn't a crime. It has actually brought us closer together lately."
JJ and Phoenix wrote on my thread about doing what is uncomfortable can have positive results. When did you finally speak up? When your W recommited to your marriage working or before? Here is my thread: Let Go & Let God nik
