Thanks, Jen. I have to remember that I'm about as imperfect as H is. Sometimes I get into a head space where I think he can't possibly be as changed as I am because I went through DBing. But the truth is, he did a lot of work on himself. And he is trying.

Dear boy, his LL is Acts of Service mostly I think. He brought home a coffee for me tonight (a special kind; it's nice that he notices what I order!) on the off chance I might want one. I thanked him big time for it. It's not my LL, but I recognize that's a sign of his love.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!