explained to pastor what was going on with wife and OM/affair and he said "watching her grow up, there is nothing you've told me today that surprises me" I was completely FLOORED. I am thinking it is very innapropriate to tell her he said this ? its between him and I right ? should her parents know >? I still can't believe he said it
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF