well today went off without a hitch, she came to pick our son up, asked how I was, how my finger was (hurt it at work), and how the appointment went. I told her what we talked about a tiny bit, and then she asked if pastor asked about her and I. I said he did and left it at that. when she leaves i usually give her a hug; she was extremely cordial the whole visit and actually put both arms out to hug me. So i decided to stop texting her and wait for her to get ahold of me; sure enough i got some a lot of texts about random stuff (no R talk) and a "goodnight" just now.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF