Quote:
...I know the grass can be greener on the other side.

It's not greener on the other side, you just have to water it where you are!!!
I heard that somewhere around here and it's always stuck with me.

Again we seem to be at similar places. I think the more comfortable we get with the idea of being without them, the more insecure they get. Keep doing what you're doing. It will be interesting to see what happens with the lawyers.
We can officially apply for a D in Sept...we'll see what happens.
Hope everything else is going well for you, sounds like your vacation was fun!!
J~


M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out