Of course there is something missing. I try to do what I can for her happiness but ultimately it is up to her. She spends excessively which irks me and then nobody is happy. It is a circle that is improving because of increased cash flow and more conservative spending from my W. My opinion is that I try to be the best H, F, friend, businessman, and civic leader (in that order) possible and that is all I can do for her happiness. I have followed the DB advice of making myself the best I can and hope that it attracts my W. My path will not change and either the M will improve or it won't. Her love for me is still and always will be her choice.
