I can only play Blackbird really, really slowly. But it is sounding better and better.

All I can say is that my H has always put things off until the very last minute. Which was pretty good for our M because I am a big plan in ahead person, so we really balanced each other out. He taught me that I need to be more spontaneous. But the procastination isn't a good trait in all circumstances. Plus he has been in such a fog that I dont' think he is able to really deal with things....

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08