I mean for me. I don't drink, or smoke. I have gone to bars with friends to hang out, but to meet someone.....I don't know. It seems my exW now likes going to bars for happy hour. WOW, what a 180 for her, or I think it is. When we were going out, it seemed that what she was interested in, but never really said anything. I thought I knew her, now I know that she was not the person I knew - Go figure. I thought she had more character than that.
She would rather leave our children with her mother or a baby sitter and go out to bars - What a women, mother....no dignity at all. Why can't she just call and say, "Hey, I am going out tonight - since you are having the kids tomorrow anyway, how about you pick them up tonight!?"....
I was thinking of calling her and telling her this, but then I thought.....what am I going to get out of it.....for her to say - "F...k off"....or something in that nature. I would be setting myself up for something like that if I did call....
I guess I have to just wait it out - its her life, the kids have to deal with this behavior.......which they should. She acted very inicent during divorce process......now the devil is out....
