Thank you for the compliments. I just hope he takes me up on the offer if it will make his journey easier. There is a slight difference between you rspending and my W. She will spend more than we have. The only saving grace is my career now can now keep up with her spending. It will be only get better with time. Best of luck in your sitch.
TBONE
P.S. Ask your H if your spending makes him feel like you are with him for the money or if he sees your spending as trying to find the happiness that he doesn't provide for you. I tried to convey this to my W but she didn't want to hear about my feelings. Just curious.