Goldey, I hope it goes faster for you if you are approachable. I was not. I was very angry for a very long time. H still learned, but it may have gone faster if I wasn't. I've never heard of "Dance of Anger", is it good ?

Ready, he gets home tonight at 10:30 pm. I don't have any big plans for tonight, he's going from east coast to west coast. He'll be suffering major jet lag, plus adrenalin let down from his trip. Tonight, he sleeps. Tomorrow night, hot tub. \:\)


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.