Thanks, puppy. I think there's some wisdom in this!
There's a thread with a very interesting and informative link to a Psychology Today article on infidelity--the thread is "why the OP is a train wreck." I'll try linking to it below--I think that you especially, Puppy, would find it enlightening! http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/index.php?term=19930501-000027&page=2
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
