t- I am sorry that I was rather ugly with you about your W... you can take solice in the fact that my R is horrible, my H and I are not communicating, and he has been having an A since December. So, before you get too peeved, just say to yourself, that women doesn't know what she is talking about! Anyway, hang in there with your W.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.