Detaching 101??

[fooled again]

Thanks Tipper,

I too see alot of similarities in my sitch and BFM's, though her timeline was much, much shorter. But time has no meaning in MLC-land so I know I shouldn't try to map out my H's journey. It will take as long as it takes and I guess it's up to me to decide how long I can do this. But it is hard not to search for similarities in an effort to console myself.

I keep repeating my mantra - something BFM had said many times in her posts - I have to live my life as if H is never coming back. Of course H will always be in my life b/c of D7, and as my non-DB coach said, it is never over when you have children..

FA