Believe me whan I say this Tink, I am no longer her doormat and I pointed this out to her. I won't just take her back at whim!! If she ever decides that maybe she wants to give us a try, well then she has alot to prove to ME!! I am tired of taking everyones s^&% because I used to be the type of person who was afraid to speak up because I did not want to hurt anyone's feelings...NO MORE!! Nice guys always finish last and I am tired of coming in last. I personally don't care one way or the other anymore, not saying I don't love my W, but am prepared either way. It will be hard knowing if she does get the D that it is a forever comittment so to speak.
I will be around as a friend but not readily available. I feel I am entitled to help her out on the DUI because it happened while we were still married, maybe I am wrong here?
I would love it if our R did work out, it would take an awful lot of work from BOTH of us, but that is nowhere near so I am not worried about that.
Ted
Ted...
How did the interview go?
Good for you, you are really beginning to detach this is good I am proud of you. You have come along way in a short period of time, take some time to reflect on it and keep your plans & goals your path. Make sure though to do this in a way of not being a jerk, but a confident man ya hear me brother?
It is okay for you to be concerned about her going through the DUI and to be there for her, but keep in mind she did this to herself she must accept it on her own, kinda like what she is doing now it is not your problem she must walk that walk.
