Thanks for the post. I have already seen a tremendous amount of change in myself so far. They are ones that I do like. Still work to do though.
When I was at the house earlier today I do a few things that needed to be done; unload dw, cleaned up a bit ect. I did think about why I did them later, since I don't live there. They were partially to help my W with some things, D11 lives there and to help me keep moving in the direction that I want to go in.
Funny how you can start doing the little things again. I saw a book today by an author that my W likes so I bought it for her. No real reason, just seemed like the thing to do. I just left it on the table when I was there earlier today.
I have read enough on here that I really don't have an expectation that it will work. I keep the faith and stand, but I also realize it may end up in D and try and keep myself grounded. I thought at one point it was going really well only to have her move positions again. That knocked me way down, so I just stay level and expect anything at this point.
I do know that right now we do have a friendship with each other. Whether it will lead anywhere I will just have to wait it out. Thanks for the compliment. I will continue the good work until it is no longer an option, either by her or by me.
Last edited by yenko69; 07/17/0802:50 AM.
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