Am I crazy or is he???

[Starshyne]

It is hard when they are still living with you. I heard the same thing from people here as well, Mojones. I needed to let go. But everyone is right, that is what you need to do. What I did was take things little bit by little bit of what I stopped doing for him. First it was his laundry, then it was his paperwork that I helped him with every week, etc etc until I was only doing the things that I legally needed to do (pay the car payment). You don't need to jump in head first today. Start by doing one less thing for him and one more thing for yourself than you did yesterday.