Real Life part 6

[Starshyne]

Oh I need to get back to playing my guitar. My guitar has been hidden in my car for the past 2 weeks. But tomorrow I plan on taking it out. I am turning one of the rooms in the house into a "Sara's hobby" room. Going to have my instruments and my scrapbooking stuff and computer in there.

This is the best! H calls and says that he needs some stuff out of the garage. I say alright. I unlock the garage and he is fumbling around in there for awhile, so I go outside to see if he needs help. I show him where I put his laptop. Then he tells me that he needs to get something he hid in the basement. I say, oh your porn? See...this whole porn thing was a HUGE issue when we were in MC. I felt like him hiding it was being dishonest but he would never tell me where he hid it except for "in the basement". I don't know how many fights we had over this. He stammers on about how he just needs to get it out of the basement. I say very nicely, "well you know I can't let you in the house. It is the law." He says that he will just run down to the basement really quick and grab it. Again I say, "I could get it for you if you tell me where it is, but I just can't let you into the house. It is the law, you know." HAHAHA!!!! So he ended up NOT getting it because even now he won't tell me where it is. So I am going on a "porn hunt" tomorrow. I swear I have searched that basement high and low for 2 years looking for it.

I then point out the box with his mail in it. He digs through it and I say, "see that brown envelope? That is the divorce decree." He doesn't say anything. He gathers up some bills of his. I again say, "that is the divorce decree in that box. You might need it." He didn't even look at it. I tell inform him that I am going to start writing "return to sender" on his mail because I don't have a forwarding address. He asks me how he can get his mail forwarded. I start to tell him and then I stop myself and say, "Wait...I'm not your wife anymore. You need to figure this out yourself." He tells me about his new apartment. It is brand new I guess and still getting painted and things and won't be ready until August 1. He says he is sorry that his things will have to stay in the garage until August 1. I tell him that is alright but I might need to charge him a storage fee. He doesn't say anything. I close up the garage and go back in the house.

It felt so good to finally be the one in control.

SAra