There MAY be a possibility that ANY kind of "help" that you give her regarding finances might be considered "more of the same" behavior. No help at all MIGHT not be different enough.
What would a total 180 for you be? Have you ever let the money matters just totally slip? Have YOU ever gone out and just blown money frivilously? What would be totally out of character for you to do? What would take you out of your comfort zone? What could you do that you might think would be something that SHE would do, that would piss you off?
What could you do that would totally blow her away, throw things off balance, make here stand up and wonder just what the heck's come over you?
Give this some thought. Doing something along these lines might reap a couple of different dividends.
JJ
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