Y In the beginning, when we start DB and we practice more kindness and consideration with our WAS, they are amazed I think they do appreciate it..after all other LBS may chose to never talk to Spouse again It makes better sense to keep the doors open..It helps the kids and makes an unbearable situation have a purpose Our internal growth I wanted to change..I realized the mistakes I made in my M and right aftre bomb, it was important for me to make amends to H I made amends to him by actively changing by validating him and thanking him for the things he did for me and kids It worked well and he began talking to me much more than prior we were friends only problem is I really had expectations he would return and I couldnt understand how we seemed to talk so well and still he said he was never coming home so your Kindness will help your W in many ways.. and it will help you more It may help bring her home or not one day you wake up and you have changed..you become what youve practiced and its been all for you keep up the good work
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
