Good advice on not using the D word. I will keep it out of my vocabulary unless I am at C.
I did go to IC today so that was not to bad. The C is still not sure exactly what is going on with my W right now. She did give some good advice when talking and sorting things out on a day to day basis with W.
C said W is hung up on the fact that I walked out on her emotionally and I waited this long to change. Which I did check out emotionally for awhile, it was baggage that came from a bad ending in a prior relationship. I also slipped way down into depression and could not get out of it. I could see what was going on but could not do anything. Kind of like watching a train coming at you and not being able to move. W's last ultimatum pushed me out of the way of the train.
W did call today and talked some. She said a friend's husband left her and was going over there to comfort her tonight. For some reason there is quite a few people we know that are splitting up. Kind of a big wave rolling around here.
From reading some of the other posts I will say I am pretty lucky. W and I get along well and talk pleasantly. There is no anger involved right now. We usually give a quick kiss goodbye when we leave each other.
Thanks for the compliment. I am doing so well because of reading situations on here and finding advice you and others have given. This place has really helped me out so much.
A big thank you to all of you.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
