She's not ready to be helped. It hasn't been long enough for her. They've only been married 7 years.
I've been thinking about his in regards to my own sitch. I have only been married for 2 years! I don't know what that means exactly for me and my wife (i know no one really does). On one hand, we haven't built up years of anger, pain, and resentment; its only about a year's worth (or what ever she is thinking at the time, some times she says there was nothing good in our relationship) but on the other hand it seems like because we don't have an extensive history together it would be easy for her just to throw in the towel.
I hope that isn't the case, I hope the time we have been together is an advantage. It seems like its not an insurmountable time but I hope its not insignificant.
I don't mean to hijack your thread cookie. the link to mine is below if you guys/gals would rather post there.
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My Story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1512790&page=1#Post1512790
