I usually call at 4:30 PM, today I was called at work for a quick meeting. Didn't get to call for the girls until 5:12 PM. When I called, exW answered somewhat pushy. I asked to speak with the girls, and she asked the girls if they want to speak with me.....WHAT THE F....K!? I am not some kind of salesperson or telamarketer. I am there father. Shouldn't she say, hey its your father....talk with him and say hi...or something like that?
Then she tells me that our girls don't want to talk.....so I say okay, then I ask "How are they doing" - She tells me "They don't want to talk"....being very pushy on the phone....I am on a cell phone so, it is very hard to hear sometimes.....especially when all you hear is a dog barking in the background, and delayed voices....last I hear is "There is someone at the door"..."BYE". I say okay, just trying to say "Goodbye". So I hang up. WOW!?
30 minutes later I call back, she answers, and I ask if it is a bad time to talk - she says "its Okay". Then I ask if we are still set for 8:30 AM tomorrow morning to pickup girls - she said "Yes". Then I ask about if she needs time schedules, telephone numbers...etc. for the 5 day vacation I am taking with the girls - she says "I have your cell, and I will leave a message for you if I have any questions". I said "Okay". Then I asked if she was upset about something earlier when I called, since her tone with me was ackward - she said "No, everthing was okay". I might be taking it out of porportion, but I sensed she wanted me off the phone asap.
I don't want to ask if she read the book - "The 5 love languages" yet....If I do it would be pushy.
I want to know if she is seeing someone, but then I don't - I know, I know.....we are divorced...its not my business....but damn, do I miss her.
I guess I feel confused about her attitude - She is totally cool at times on the phone, then sometimes she is not. Yesterday, she was really cool, today she was real pushy. Why?
