Hi Imp, (Thanks to Gypsy for our nicknames)

Yikes, I'm humbled that you remember my posts from back then. I've been reading yours, didn't realize your H was a narcissist but once you've lived with one you really know their mind set. Is your H physically attractive? Mine is and that is his downfall. I've never put much stock in that sort of thing, always thinking that creativity, intelligence, determination, and devotion wouldn't fade. Of course, my looks have deteriorated a bit since H first met me, yet I maintain a strong and healthy body - alas, no match for a "hot" OW. There is nothing like novelty.

Oh well... I am me. And I have the numerous notes and cards from H which proclaimed his undying love for my uniqueness.

Thanks for your thoughts that he may still care for me. We shall see what transpires...


Me: 59
H: 59
Together: 28 years
Married: 25 years in August
"There may be someone else" 12/26/07
H signed a one year lease 4/1/08
H moved out 5/11/08
H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08
Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08