I've done a little initiating lately, but I get tired of being the one who initiates. I think he's afraid that I will reject him, so he doesn't try much. More to work on, yup, I know.

So, we have our first JC session in about 6 weeks on Monday. The last several sessions were focused on his feelings about his family, esp. since his father passed away in May. I'd like to spend some time talking to the C about us and I need some advice on how to bring up these serious subjects that are bugging me (my lack of trust, the porn issue) in the right way. Help? Suggestions?

Thanks so much, as always!


me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08