You know, I never realized until now, when I looked at your profile, that you're a CPA, and that one of your big "triggers" seems to be financial stuff!
I wonder if this fits into the equation at all anywhere. Since you're a financial kind of guy, what kind of "rules", either spoken or unspoken, do you and your wife have set up concerning money matters? Since you're good with finances, has she just left it ALL up to you? If so, was this something that was negotiated, or just happened to come about? Do you think she really likes it, or might be a bit resentful about it? Or, might she be happy that this is your burden to bear? Or, might YOU be resentful and frustrated about this arrangement?
What could be some possible areas of change in this arena? Even just small ones to get the ball rolling in a different direction?
Just tossing out some ideas. These questions are making me think about some of our financial stuff, too, and what I might need to change!
JJ
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