Still not knowing exactly what I am going to say when we have another "talk" about LS. It is an impasse and she is going to do what she is going to do. So, as far as me goes, nothing will be gained or lost from another talk. Well, maybe something gained depending on what her mood is. Just playing it by ear with her at this point.
Sounds right to me. And sometimes doing or saying nothing is the right thing. It's her gig. About the best you can do is say it isn't your choice, but that she can do what she feels she has to do.
Just a little hint. Don't use the word divorce. If she wants to use fine. For example, "I said my parents told me even if W and I D, they still love her and the girls and they were always welcome", change the wording a bit. You might say, my parents said no matter what happens you and the girls are always welcome. If you don't want it, don't say it. It can come back at you. I said it once and it came back at me.
And watch your anger. You are early on. It can sneak up on you at any time.
yenko, you really are doing well considering short a time you have been here.
