Pup, thanks for clarifying about letting go instead of giving up...what does that look like when your spouse lives with you? It is hard. Especially with his depression. I am trying to be supportive out of concern. It is even harder because he does not have the same concern over me and I am not good some days either.I just know rationally that I have to soldier on.
What it looks like is you treat him like a good roommate. Civil. Respectful. But you stop "working" at the relationship, and you mentally and emotionally move on.
