Quoting tbone:
What I would like to do is flush all the old "stuff" from my memory so the little things would be only that instead of a reminder of all the similar things that she has done in the past.


Me too, my friend. Problem is, instead of a "flush", it can have a tendency to be more of a "slow leak".

Wish I had some great words of wisdom for you here, my friend, but it's something that I've been having to work on a bit here lately. Been a few things happening that trigger some of the bad memories, and makes it sometimes difficult to see how far things have come. A lot of the surface crap has been cleaned away, now it's time for a deeper scrubbing!

I'll be back. Just wanted to let you know right now that you're not alone in this!!


JJ

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