You are doing really well!! Having to deal with not only H but also OW at work... nobody can act "as if" with that. But you are keeping your head held high, and for good reason. Screw the rumor mill. If the people around you can't see the love and devotion coming from you when H has given you only heartache in return, then they are not seeing the wonderful person we all know you are. You deserve better than what you are getting, but remember most people end up getting what they deserve (H included). We're with you!
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