Glad you're still Happy. Makes me Happy too - LOL!
Seriously, if he agreed in writing, why wouldn't that hold up?
OK, I do know about them paying for one and not the other. Brandon started college the week ex left. I paid all his tuition. Then when we got D'd - found out he had spent all of Ashley's education fund. Guess what? It was HIS lawyer who said in mediation that he was required by law to pay it all back. LOL - look who's laughing now. But when it comes to D and to our kids - nothing is really fair anyway, is it? IT all sucks for them. It is never what we planned.
And yep - Agreed - they're like a fungus. Wish mine would dry up and fall off (the planet). Yep - sounds like a good idea.
Keep smiling, Happy. Keep that blood pressure down. WE don't want anything happening to you.